Do you enjoy meeting amazing prospective soul mates and constantly breaking up with them? Are you ready to throw up your feet and just let life happen?
Or, are you in one of those relationships whose routines choke you up with boredom, no connection or intimacy? You know you are frustrated. But you just dread those long lonely searches for “the One.”
Have you made a promise in the New Year to just “go it alone” and stop trying? Here’s how to make that happen and land the perfect “knucklehead” for your life.
After all, aren’t we all just tired of trying so hard?
1 – DON’T envision what you want for your love life upfront. Just let it happen – it’s worked so far!
2 – DON’T come from the heart. Manipulate your way to what you think is cool.
3 – DON’T be flexible about your independence once you land a knucklehead. Adhere to your superior singledom – that glorious independence – since your so interesting already that no one could possibly expand your already perfect world. Too much of their presence can be an unwelcome threat to your coolness.
4 – DON’T act like a person who is ready for a committed relationship. Live irresponsibly. Keep a low credit score. Eat Chinese food every day! That’s healthy, right? Stay unemployed!
5 – DON’T complete old relationships. Keep holding onto those outdated patterns and be unforgiving of past hurts perpetrated against you.
6 – DON’T do the inner work. F#@K it! Act perfect. Nothing wrong here! I’m the victim, and you’re the asshole.
7 – DON’T try to meet your own needs. Instead, project them onto your partner and break-up with them when they fall short. You know, the ones you are not meeting because you’ve never stopped long enough to consider how to meet them. Respect. Honesty. Trust.
8 – DON’T let go of the past. Hold tight! No need to grow. You’re perfect the way you are even though you are still living with mom and dad.
9 – DON’T get in touch with your intuition. “I’m intelligent. I went to Harvard. I know everything AND make a lot of money. I must be wonderful already.” You’re Mother certainly agrees…but does anyone else?
10 – DON’T develop the ability to be alone. Constant Craving. You don’t need to listen to the voices within. So, make another call, keep the party going and the drinks coming. Soon you will attract another knucklehead.
Congratulations! Look no further. You are back on the windy scenic route of missed connections and painful ties. It’s a path many have chosen to follow. Unless you say, enough is enough.
If you are you tired of applying the same futile strategies – making the same excuses – let’s talk. You don’t have to go it alone. It’s time to take a new path that leads to a juicy relationship that is real, honest, fun and full of authentic love. Yes, it’s possible, using a proven method called Calling in “the One”.
Join me in February to start the New Year with a fresh perspective on life and love at my Calling in “The One” workshop. We will examine how to change your journey in love by understanding how YOU have the power to change your experience. By the time you leave, you feel empowered – confident that you can and will – manifest the love of your life.
Set greater expectations, break sabotaging patterns, and learn to live life out loud. Accept nothing less this Valentine’s Day.
Let’s create that path together in our next Calling in “The One” workshop.
Join us. You’ll LOVE it. Sign up now.
Love always, Noreen